What’s different in Positive People

“We can’t live a positive life with a negative mind.”

Life is a reflection of what we think, if our thoughts are negative, the world we see will be the same. But how do we stay positive in this negative world?

This can be practised using NLP techniques and tricks which will make positivity our second nature. Our mindset is everything, it can make a difference between success and failure. The Law of attraction says that we attract everything in our life through our thoughts so if we change our thoughts we change the reality. The approach is simple - be positive and our life, the people we meet, our experiences, everything will be positive.

Why is it that some people radiate positive energy wherever they go and in whatever they do while others don’t? It’s because they see a silver lining behind every cloud. Can we learn to be positive and change our life the way we want to?

Yes, we can and here’s “how” -

1. STOP PLAYING VICTIM.

“Some people create their own storms and then get mad when it rains”

The NLP technique of Blame frame / Outcome frame can help us better. When anything negative happens positive people do not look for a place to dump blame, they instead look at the alternatives available to make things positive again. When we blame people or situations, we shut doors to solutions that might possibly open new ways to approach the challenge in hand. We deprive ourselves of the power to think differently and do differently. We are responsible for our thoughts and therefore the outcome in any given situation. By thinking differently, we can change our thoughts, our perspective towards people involved and also the situation, and finally break old patterns of behaviour leading to better solutions.

2. TREAT OURSELVES LIKE ROYALTY.

“The way we treat ourselves sets the standard for others”

Positive people love themselves and take time out for themselves. They exercise regularly, eat nutritious foods and maintain a healthy lifestyle. They take time out for themselves and hold a job that makes them happy. They know that unless we are happy, we cannot make others happy. They work tirelessly to transform mental blockages and gain strength from them to lead a more positive life. When we treat ourselves royally, others will automatically respect us for what we are.

3. DON’T LOOK FOR HAPPINESS RATHER CREATE IT.

“The ones who find happiness are the ones who don’t make excuses. If it’s broken, they fix it, if it’s wrong they make it right.”

As goes the NLP presupposition, positive people believe that we have all the resources we need or we can create them so they are always happy. Happiness is a state of mind that can be created when we learn to accept that we can create our own resources. They build up each day of their life with positive thoughts, positive actions and positive relationships. Their thoughts their actions and relationships radiate their positivity. Though the events and situations in life may not always reflect their happiness, they have filled themselves with so much positivity, that it naturally spills over and spreads to others. They don’t need anything outside themselves for happiness, because they have created it from within their own hearts.

4. BE COMFORTABLE TRYING NEW THINGS

“Never be afraid of trying something new. Because life gets boring when we stay within the limits of what we already know”

While staying in the comfort zone and playing safe is easy, finding greener pastures can be really exciting and fun. Sticking to the comfort zone doesn’t change anything in our life, be it the events, the people, or the situations, nothing really changes. Positive people know that comfort zone stagnates growth so they love to push past the doubts and insecurities of trying new avenues. They believe in themselves and their ability to achieve greater success in the unventured paths of life.

5. STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF

“Sometimes life is hard, but sometimes we make it harder than it really is.”

Life puts forward it’s challenges and positive people know that brooding over a situation doesn’t help anyone. So they put trivial matters aside and keep moving forward towards their goals. Though from time to time difficult situations test their patience and willpower, they don’t get carried away. They face the storm and make a way through it. They don’t allow small stuff to kill their inner spirit and enthusiasm. This motivates them to look through a 360 degree perspective and look at things in different angles. They understand that without the negatives we forget to appreciate the positive we have in each situation.

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